YourTantric Path to Power in Sex & Love
You want to be your authentic self in relationship, but you keep abandoning your needs and desires. It's costing you the depth, meaning, and peace you desire in relationship. You're ready to feel fully alive in sex and love, but you're in need of a path.
Is the Tantric Path to Power, your path?
-Free Guide-
5 self-abondoning behaviors
that kill connection
Are you unwittingly pushing away the love you want?
Unintentional consequences of self-abandonment
When you choose to betray yourself, you also choose...
Feeling unseen and unheard
Deception, lies, cheating
The not enough shame spiral
Recurring tension and conflict
Resentment, anger, loneliness
Disconnection, breakup, divorce
Ready to feel alive and powerful?
Every time we censor our truth, stuff our emotions, or deny our needs—we disappear ourselves.
When we say it's ok but it's not, when we say it's fine when we're not, when we say yes, but we're actually a no...we slowly disappear ourselves and any chance of depth, meaning, and peace in relationship.
If the disappearing act is your default M.O, it's not your fault. You've been socialized to believe that you must give up aspects of who you are to get what you want in relationship. But we both know that this outdated strategy for connection doesn't work.
You were meant to feel fully alive and powerful in sex and love. Ready to retire the disappearing act and get you more of what you want in relationship?
You've got this, and I've got you!
YourTantric Path to Power
When you choose aliveness and power, you also choose...
Feeling seen and heard
More trust and safety
Knowing that you're enough
Fewer conflicts and faster repair
Feeling confident and sexy
More connection and play
Ready for depth, meaning, and peace in relationship?
Hi, I'm Jess Vega
Love coach and practitioner of Classical Tantra.
I was born into a family rife with mental illness, drug dependency, abuse, and poverty. Self-abondonment was a survival strategy. And while little me was doing the best she could, the strategy turned into a pattern that haunted my sex and love life for many years.
I've been mapping the relationship between authenticity and meaningful connection for over a decade now—and I've got to say—that the path I've mapped is pretty bad ass. Care to join?
I get on well with truth seekers, those who make beauty where ever they go, and anyone who is ferociously curious.
What do you think? Sound like you?
Not your BFF
I’m NOT the kind of coach who’s your BFF, but I’m not the bogeyman either. I’m your ally in love and a stand for the relationship you want to create. This means that I'll risk your approval in service to your dreams. At times, this will feel uncomfortable for both of us, but I guarantee that it will lead to more you and more connection ;)
Not your guru
I’m NOT the “just think positive...everything is love and light” woo woo guru coach. You're a rich and complex being, and a head in the clouds approach to growth is an insult to the complexity of your human experience down here on Earth. I'm a two feet planted firmly on the ground kind of coach who draws on the wisdom of Tantric spirituality, NVC, and hard science to get you results.
My commitment to you
Saying yes to a coaching relationship is a courageous act of self-love that deserves respect. If you're a yes, I commit to being:
- An assertive yet compassionate liaison between you and your blindspots.
- An ally who will challenge your thinking, keep you honest, and hold you accountable.
- A ride or die who creates the safe space you need to fully fall apart and come back to life.
Walk Your Tantric Path to Power
in three steps
✧ Get As to your Qs
✧ Choose a start date
✧ Make your payment
✧ Stop self-abondoning
✧ Embody your authenticity
✧ Feel alive and powerful
✧ Depth
✧ Meaning
✧ Peace
Take the next step and...
The Universe doesn't make mistakes, it makes magic—
aka YOU.
You’re a unique expression of life happening exactly once. Do you know how perfect everything had to be for you to be you, here and now? Disappearing yourself is exactly the opposite of what life wants for you. Go ahead...ask ;)
Playing some caricature of yourself...turning it up or down...in order to avoid conflict and maintain so called "connection," WILL sabotage your ability to create the life you actually want.
The depth, meaning, and peace you desire in relationship is just on the other side of your aliveness...your power. When you're ready to walk Your Tantric Path to Power in sex and love, I'll be here to help illuminate the way ;)
Your To-Do list:
01. Enroll
02. Walk Your Path
03. Delight in the relationship you desire
Your Tantric Path to Power
Your Tantric Path to Power is a 12 week 1:1 coaching program designed for spiritual and ambitious women who seek depth, meaning, and peace in their romantic relationships and want to feel alive and powerful in sex and love.
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