Be the woman who gets what she wants —not what’s left.
You’re done waiting to be chosen. You're ready to be seen, heard, and met by a man who matches your depth. Now you need an ally—and a plan.
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The cost of settling for less
When you choose to settle for less, you also choose...
Feeling unseen, unheard, unmet
Deception, lies, cheating
Feeling like you're too much/not enough
Frequent tension and conflict
Feeling resentful, lonely, and unfufilled
Disconnection, breakup, divorce
Stop settling for less
Every time you censor your truth, ignore your emotions, or deny your needs—you settle.
I get it. Fully showing up and standing for what you want in partnership is scary. The thought of him pulling away, leaving, or having to start over again can feel overwhelming. But the alternative? Settling for a life of resentment, loneliness, never feeling seen or met—that’s far worse.
No amount of self-abandonment will stop a man from abandoning you. In fact, it invites it. Men take their cues from us. We can’t expect a man to meet our standards or honor our boundaries if we continually disregard our own.
If you want to be deeply met by a quality man, you have to start by meeting yourself first. But figuring out what that means for you isn’t always intuitive. It’s hard to see the depths of your patterns, let alone change them, when you’re still living inside of them.
You need an ally—and a plan.
-Free Guide-
5 behaviors
that kill connection
Are you unwittingly pushing away the love you want?
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When you stop settling for less
Feel seen and heard
Feel celebrated and cherished
Feel powerful and confident
Feel safe in your body
Drip with pleasure and delight
Feel deeply satiated by love
Stop settling
Hi, I'm Jess Vega
Relationship Coach, Tantrika, and Registered Nurse. I get on well with truth seekers, deep thinkers, and beauty makers.
I was born into a family rife with mental illness, drug abuse, and poverty. Abandoining myself was a useful survival strategy for little me, but this behavior soon became a pattern that unwittingly sabotaged my ability to experience the sex, love, and relationships I wanted.
I've been mapping the connection between authenticiy and connection ever since. I've learned a lot, but if I had to sum it up in one sentence, I'd say...you can never feel loved as you are if you show up as someone you're not.
Not your BFF
I’m NOT the kind of coach who’s your BFF, but I’m not the bogeyman either. I’m your ally in love and a stand for the relationship you want to create. This means that I'll risk your approval in service to your dreams. At times, this will feel uncomfortable for both of us, but I guarantee that it will lead to more you and more connection ;)
Not your guru
I’m NOT the “just think positive...everything is love and light” woo woo guru coach. You're a rich and complex being, and a head in the clouds approach to growth is an insult to the complexity of your human experience down here on Earth. I'm a two feet planted firmly on the ground kind of coach who draws on the wisdom of Tantrik spirituality and hard science to get you results.
My commitment to you
Saying yes to a coaching relationship is a courageous act of self-love that deserves respect. If you're a yes, I commit to being:
- An assertive yet compassionate liaison between you and your blindspots.
- An ally who will challenge your thinking, keep you honest, and hold you accountable.
- A ride or die who creates the safe space you need to fully fall apart and come back to life.
How to get started
It's simple
✧ Free 15 min call to get As to your Qs
✧ 4 calls monthly, resources to support your success
✧ Feel seen, heard, and met
Take the first step and...
Your dreams need you to lead!
You’re a unique expression of life happening exactly once. The Universe didn't bring you here so you could settle for less. You were meant to feel powerful and deeply satiated by love.
If you feel excitement but also a mixture of fear and doubt as you read this, just know that it's normal and a good sign. It means that your dreams matter to you.
And when you're ready to turn those dreams into reality, I'll be here to walk beside you as your greatest ally in love.
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Rise of the Queen
Over the next 12 weeks, you’ll learn the psychological frames, somatic and linguistic tools, and straight up magic you need to embody your Queen and conjure your deepest dreams—aka your King—a quality man who walks not behind or in front of you, but beside you, into a shared vision of the future.
Program features
Mapping session (x1, remote)
• 90 min deep dive session that will set the stage for your success
One-on-one coaching sessions (weekly, remote)
• 12+ hrs of undivided attention and support toward your goals
Mini coaching sessions (weekly, as needed)
• Video and voice messaging for support in-between sessions
Support documents
• Reference and integrate new frames and tools you've learned
Personalized gifts
• Curated presents to aid Her Majesty during her rise
A Queen is a woman who:
✓ Wields power with prowess.
✓ Possess range and depth in her expression.
✓ Feels safe and free in her body.
✓ Commits to love in the face of fear.
✓ Turns her dreams into reality.
Your success guaranteed
I'm a stand for the relationship you want to create. If by the end of the program you haven't learned how to embody your Queen despite your commitment to the process, I'll continue to work with you until you have.
Book your free 15 min consultationHow to fight smarter
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