You must tell them what you want!
Tired of feeling unseen, unheard, or unmet in relationships? I'll teach you how to express yourself with confidence & compassion so you can have better sex and more love.
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Riddle me this...
How can we ever feel seen, heard, and met in our relationship if we show up as someone we're not?
We can't! Yet fears of rejection and/or punishment lead many of us to deny or be dishonest about our needs and desires.
Sadly, this leads to:
Rarely feeling seen, heard, or met.
Deception, lies, and cheating.
Thinking you're too much/not enough.
Unhealthy anger and frequent conflict.
Feeling resentment, anxiety, and stress.
Disconnection, breakup or divorce
Ready for better sex and more love?
Every time we censor our truth, stuff our emotions, or deny our needs—we disappear ourselves.
When we say it's ok when it's not, when we say it's fine when we're not, when we say yes, but we're actually a no...we slowly disappear ourselves; Making it damn near impossible for us to be seen, heard, and met in relationship.
If the disappearing act is your default modus operandi...you're likely plagued by "not enough" or "too much" belief patterns...which are followed by feelings of insecurity, resentment, and disappointment. Heavy...I know. I've been there too.
But know this my love...nothing is wrong with you.
This is an issue of a faulty MO—not faulty humans. We've been socialized to believe that loving another requires self-abandonment, but we both know that this isn't true.
It's time to move away from the disappearing act and toward our full expression; because only when we fully allow ourselves to be...will we have the power to create the relationship we want.
Good news? You don't have to go it alone. I've walked this walk and can teach you the art of reappearing yourself in relationship, even if you feel disenchanted or exhausted at the moment.
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The Reappearing Act...
Your 1st class ticket to better sex and more love.
Upgrades include:
Feeling seen, heard, and met.
More honesty, trust, and security.
Knowing that you're enough.
Fewer conflicts and faster repair.
Feeling confident and easeful.
More connection and collaboration.
Ready for a deeply satisfying relationship?
Hi, I'm Jess Vega
Love coach, Tantrika, and former saboteur d'amour.
Not your BFF
I’m NOT the kind of coach who’s your BFF, but I’m not the bogeyman either. I’m your ally in love and a stand for the relationship you want to create. This means that I'll risk your approval in service to your dreams. At times, this will feel uncomfortable for both of us, but I guarantee that it will lead to better sex and more love in the end ;)
Not your guru
I’m NOT the “just think positive...everything is love and light” woo woo guru coach. You're a rich and complex being, and a head in the clouds approach to growth is an insult to the complexity of your human experience down here on Earth. I'm a two feet planted firmly on the ground kind of coach who draws on the wisdom of Tantrik spirituality and science to get you results in your sex and love life.
My commitment to you
Saying yes to a coaching relationship is a courageous act of self-love that deserves respect. If you're a yes, I commit to being:
- An assertive yet compassionate liaison between you and your blindspots.
- An ally who will challenge your thinking, keep you honest, and hold you accountable.
- A ride or die who creates the safe space you need to fully fall apart and come back to life.
Your 1st class boarding pass
to better sex and more love.
Clarify your desire, problem, and road blocks.
Learn how to dismantle the blocks between you and the relationship you want.
Be seen, heard, and met in relationship.
Take the first step now by scheduling a call.
The Universe doesn't make mistakes, it makes magic—
aka YOU.
You’re a fucking miracle...a unique expression of life happening exactly once. Do you know how perfect everything had to be, for you to be you, here and now? Stop denying the magic that is you by disappearing yourself in relationship!
Love needs all of you. Not some porn star, super hero, or Betty Crocker caricature of you...ALL OF YOU. Turning it up or down to maintain connection or avoid conflict will inevitably sabotage your experience of sex, love, and relationship. You know this!
When you're ready to be seen, heard, and met by your partner...I'll be here to teach you the art of reappearing yourself in relationship.
Your to do list:
01. Schedule a call
02. Enroll in my monthly coaching membership
03. Enjoy better sex and more love
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If we work together...
You'll enroll in my monthly membership program.
1 hr virtual call - singles/couples
1 hr virtual call x 4 - singles/couples
Start by scheduling a single call.
How to fight smarter
Relationships can only survive conventional fighting strategies like defensiveness, criticism, contempt, and stonewalling for so long. In How to fight smarter, you’ll learn a smarter way...so you feel clear, confident, and connected, even when shit gets hard.
For a regular dose of humor, sass, and inspiration...
you can find me on the gram @soullevellove
